Confrontation+Forgivness+Mindset – A 3 Step Process.

It has as long as I can remember been my belief that everybody is placed on this earth for an intent. I also believe that it’s necessary for us to discover what our meaning in life is, so we may express our message to other people. Then in the given moment will we be able to fulfill our mission (intent). How may will not grow as an individual or in business if we don’t understand what our purpose is?

I found out how easy it is to love other people unconditionally, but to forgive or to ask for forgiveness for the harm they did me or I did them has been hard. I came to the realization that I needed a step by step plan to help me grow both personally and professionally. When I started to put into place these 3 steps my life grew and I was not a victim anymore. In this process I have learned to get over issues of the past.

Confronting. At the right time, I had to approach those I had harmed or had harmed me. You will now when the «right time» comes along for you. One by one I faced them and told them how they had influenced my life. To confront people in my life I felt had harmed me or I had harmed was not a easy thing to do. But once I did face up to my past and my hurt, something extraordinary happened, my past «died» and all the hurt went down the drain too. I`m no longer a victim. I`m now enjoying life to it`s fullest. I love myself for whom I`ve become.

Forgiving. Forgiving is a huge step in the healing process. I had to take a good look at myself and my intentions. Did I forgive for all the right reasons or did I simply say “I forgive” because I wanted the issue to go away? I had to learn to recognize if the “talk” came from the heart/soul or the mind/ego. For me the turning point came when I realised I had to listen to my body. Because it is there all the feelings, good or bad, will shine through and be your guide in this process.

Mindset. The healing process learned me many things about the life. The main experience I had was to to learn my self to count blessings rather than focusing on the negative. I had to adopt a another thinking, a entirely differently from how I used to think. I learned to be grateful and appreciate all the challenges which appeared in my life. I renamed “challenges” and “harsh times”to “many opportunities to growth. ” Of course, I too encounter obstacles, but obstacles are there to overcome. By the way, it’s hard to be depressed and negative when you `re counting your blessings .

It is not worthwhile to postpone till tomorrow what you can change today. Don`t let your past determine your future. Do not let the hurt and sadness you have prevent you in forgiving other humans. You have to break down this pain in order to be content and pleased. If you cling to the pain it may cause a lot of anger and bitterness. These emotions can cause other health issues. I am proof that it is possible to change the mindset and find happiness, experiencing pleasure and having success. But of course one has a choice. It is all up to you.

To Your Success